Minggu, 20 Oktober 2013

SEXUAL ABUSE

  •  The offense

Sexual abuse knows no demographic boundaries, but more than 80 percent of victims are female,
while the overwhelming majority of perpetrators is male. The typical victim is a pre-teen girl
abused over a long period of time by a middle-aged male family member who may have experienced
sexual abuse himself.
Sexual abuse is not driven by love or sexual gratification; rather, it typically is an act of control
over a weaker victim to bolster an offender’s feelings of low self-worth, to gain attention, or to feel
cared for by someone. Typically, the offender is someone unable to have a healthy, intimate relationship
with other people.
The offender often takes advantage of the natural trust among family members and then uses the
same trust to hide the offense, threatening further harm or the loss of another family member’s
trust and affection if revealed. A complex bond may develop between an offender and victim.
  •  The effects

Some of the physical effects of sexual abuse are immediately apparent and can include bruises,
cuts, burns, injury to genitals, damage to reproductive and other internal organs, pregnancy, and
sexually transmitted diseases.
The psychological effects of sexual abuse may appear immediately, but often are delayed. Sexual
abuse can destroy trust and warp the victim’s perception of a normal, loving relationship. Victims
frequently feel they are at fault for the abuse and have low self-esteem. These feelings can lead to
depression, eating and sleeping disorders, and suicide attempts.
Victims may fall into a pattern of searching out marital and sexual partners who abuse them. They
may find it difficult to form meaningful and lasting relationships with members of the opposite
sex or to have normal sexual relations. They may use sex to gain attention or affection and may see
themselves worthy only as sex objects.
Victims also resort to defense mechanisms to blot the incidents from their mind. These repressed
feelings of anger and guilt may lead to physical and psychological problems. Physically, repressed
feelings may cause ulcers, colitis, and migraine headaches, for example.
Psychologically, repressed memories of abuse may resurface as symptoms of other mental illnesses.
Unless a history of abuse is revealed, a victim may be treated for a mental illness while the real
cause of the symptoms goes untreated.
  •  Treatment

The physical trauma of sexual abuse usually heals without long-lasting effect. The psychological
trauma also can be treated successfully. Through support groups and individual and group
therapy, a victim can overcome the barriers that the memories and pain of abuse place in the way
of a normal, happy, and productive life. Recovery may take anywhere from three to five years of
intensive therapy and years of follow-up and support.
  •  What can be done?

Good communication within a family may be the best defense against sexual abuse. Parents
should make it clear to their children what types of attention and touching are permissible and
what parts of the body are private and not to be touched by another person.
Adults may be unwilling or may find it hard to believe a child’s complaint of abuse, but children
rarely lie about sexual abuse. Parents should assure children that they will be believed and loved
no matter what they have to tell.
Warning signs include changes in a child’s personality, a sudden aversion to another person, and
unusual secretiveness. Parents should be alert to unexplained bruises, tenderness, and rashes, especially
on or about the genitalia and mouth. They should question unwarranted gifts or money
and talk with children about close relationships they form with adults.
Sexual abuse makes up three-fourths of all crimes against children. To report suspected or known

abuse, call toll-free, 1-800-392-3738. The call is confidential.

Sexual abuse affects at least one of every 10 families in the United States. In Missouri, more than 2,100 cases
are reported each year, but it is estimated that nine in 10 cases are never reported.
Any sexual contact between an adult and an unconsenting person is considered abuse and any sexual contact
between an adult and a minor, regardless of consent, is abuse. Sexual abuse also can include indecent
exposure, pornography, obscene phone calls, or exposure to sexual acts.
Like rape, sexual abuse is a form of violence. Its effects span generations with many victims of childhood
sexual abuse experiencing emotional problems years later as adults.

Hasminee Uma K.E . NIM 2410215.

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